tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16655703.post7250082256011713933..comments2023-10-16T05:31:07.076-07:00Comments on Ain't That Sherific?: Blow out . . .Sherihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16598822471867683429noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16655703.post-65633479686532035902011-05-16T17:29:51.298-07:002011-05-16T17:29:51.298-07:00BTDT, got the icebag. I mix it up. I sometimes s...BTDT, got the icebag. I mix it up. I sometimes say, "I need a chance to calm down first." Sometimes I try to reason with him/her (explain why I'm upset). Most of the time I try to accept the hug in the spirit it was intended - from a child who wants to "fix" what she did, barely remembers what happened or doesn't remember it at all, and is emotionally a very young child who is only going to remember the rejection and not my reasons.<br /><br />Marymarythemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16655703.post-73356288470866488932011-05-10T21:24:01.606-07:002011-05-10T21:24:01.606-07:00I have been in this same situation so many times w...I have been in this same situation so many times w Ttops & Butterboy. It is so frustrating. Ttops is mostly like Dustin where she basically forgets it ever happened. Butterboybis at least remorseful. Still, I really struggle when I'm bruised and hurting to just move on. I sometimes say, "I need a little time to find my calm." other times, I get mad & try to reason, even though I know it doesn't make a lick of difference. But damn. It's hard.Tubavillehttp://Tubaville.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com